Anyway, out of the small amount of books I do read, my personal favourite would be Alexandra Potter's Calling Romeo. Well, in short, its about a girl, who's already committed in a relationship with her longtime boyfriend, suddenly feel bored and annoyed with the boyfriend since there's no more spark or excitement. And when she found some other guy from work, she started to have feelings for that guy, and less for her boyfriend. Yada yada yada, she had infatuations, and neglecting that old boyfriend of hers. Same drama, in the end, she realise what a magnificent guy she already has and failed to see that all along.
Well, I'm not here to write the review or analysis of the book, because that can easily be found from google. But the reason I actually liked the idea of the book, is because, it actually hit, right on target.
Ouch.
Ouch.I dare say, we are all, at least once in their lives, guilty of infidelities in relationships. We feel the need to obtain the love of somebody else, even when we already have a person that is showering us with theirs. Well, that's human being for you. We are never satisfied with what we have, but often mourn over for what we have lost.
So, this girl from the book, Juliet, was stood up during Valentine's Day by her live-in boyfriend. Well, thats what happens when you've been together long enough to take things for granted. That is usually the case, though. Boyfriends tend to neglect their woman, and woman look for what they miss in somebody else. See, that is something I have realised for quite some time. Guys would always forget to show that they love their partner because they feel that, the fact that they're still together with them, enough to show that they love them. Well guys, unfortunately, girls aren't like that. They want to be shown. They want to feel loved. They need it to be obvious. So, when the boyfriends don't do that, thats why the girls tend to stray... And what else could be better than new guys?
Girls, I know its hard to commit in a relationship. Sure, it tends to get boring, and lifeless sometimes. I used to think that, too. I always thought, "I'm still so young, so why the hell do I wanna be stuck with the same freaking guy I was in high school?" So, I strayed. For quite some time. Enough time to be infatuated with a few guys. But then it got me thinking, the guy I actually have right now, is actually amazing. Sure, we tend to be like old, married couples, but considering all the fun we had, all the memories we made, am I ready to throw that all away? Then bam! I turned 360 degrees. Well, not exactly immediately, but I did change my ways. And you know what, he did too, after a long heartfelt talk.
So the key of it all, is of course, communication. We need to talk. I know girls tend to keep things to themselves, whereas guys are just clueless to what is in girls' minds. I know, sometimes we just want them to know what we want without us telling them, but hey, guys are just bimbos sometimes, and that's okay. So, us girls just need to remind them of what they're lack off. But only if you want the relationship to work. If not, be my guest and just leave.
And the guys, when girls do talk it out, please, do take note (literally). They hate to repeat the same things all over again because they would feel that what they said weren't important enough to you that you weren't concentrating hard enough to remember. That's when they get reaaalllly angry. If Bryan Adams could understand, why can't you guys? Anyway, here's Chris Daughtry's version of Have You Ever Really Loved a Woman..
So, this girl from the book, Juliet, was stood up during Valentine's Day by her live-in boyfriend. Well, thats what happens when you've been together long enough to take things for granted. That is usually the case, though. Boyfriends tend to neglect their woman, and woman look for what they miss in somebody else. See, that is something I have realised for quite some time. Guys would always forget to show that they love their partner because they feel that, the fact that they're still together with them, enough to show that they love them. Well guys, unfortunately, girls aren't like that. They want to be shown. They want to feel loved. They need it to be obvious. So, when the boyfriends don't do that, thats why the girls tend to stray... And what else could be better than new guys?
Girls, I know its hard to commit in a relationship. Sure, it tends to get boring, and lifeless sometimes. I used to think that, too. I always thought, "I'm still so young, so why the hell do I wanna be stuck with the same freaking guy I was in high school?" So, I strayed. For quite some time. Enough time to be infatuated with a few guys. But then it got me thinking, the guy I actually have right now, is actually amazing. Sure, we tend to be like old, married couples, but considering all the fun we had, all the memories we made, am I ready to throw that all away? Then bam! I turned 360 degrees. Well, not exactly immediately, but I did change my ways. And you know what, he did too, after a long heartfelt talk.
So the key of it all, is of course, communication. We need to talk. I know girls tend to keep things to themselves, whereas guys are just clueless to what is in girls' minds. I know, sometimes we just want them to know what we want without us telling them, but hey, guys are just bimbos sometimes, and that's okay. So, us girls just need to remind them of what they're lack off. But only if you want the relationship to work. If not, be my guest and just leave.
And the guys, when girls do talk it out, please, do take note (literally). They hate to repeat the same things all over again because they would feel that what they said weren't important enough to you that you weren't concentrating hard enough to remember. That's when they get reaaalllly angry. If Bryan Adams could understand, why can't you guys? Anyway, here's Chris Daughtry's version of Have You Ever Really Loved a Woman..
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